Being in a relationship can be an exciting journey for both you and your partner, especially if it’s a new one. In the beginning, all relationships go through the phase where you’re both just madly in love and couldn’t get enough of each other. However, every relationship, whether married or not, will eventually move on and pass the ‘honeymoon phase’. If not taken care of properly, your relationship will end up becoming stale.
Every day will become an endless cycle of routines, not just in your daily lives but in bed as well. If not addressed earlier on, you might end up getting bored of each other. No one wants to have a partner with tricks and moves that they’ve already used hundreds of times and you’ve already memorized what they’re going to do next. That’s just no fun at all. The same thing can be said for you though, and not just your partner. Without meaning to, you might have already created a pattern and have become too predictable. Fear not! You can easily fix this by trying out new stuff in bed to step up your game.
Some couples are afraid of opening up to their partner about their sexual fantasies, fearing they’d be weirded out by it. However, you won’t really know unless you talk about it, right? Explore each other’s fantasies and see where it takes you. Who knows? Your partner might end up becoming a pro fairy godmother of all your sexual fantasies. Of course, this isn’t just about you. Don’t neglect your partner’s fantasies too.
Instead of having sex buck naked like you usually do, try stepping up your game and invest in some lingerie. You could try going shopping for some and surprise your partner once they come home from work. You’ll drive them crazy once they see you flaunting your body. Of course, don’t forget to top it off with a heck ton of confidence. Nothing’s sexier than someone confident with their own body.
Try Some Toys
Sex toys are great, especially if you want to spice things up. Using sex toys during foreplay is great for getting you both hot and bothered before sex. If you take the time to click here, you will know what the best vibrators are in the market right now. There are tons of options to choose from depending on you and/or your partner’s preferences. However, don’t completely rely on these toys. Rather, a good way to view sex toys is seeing them as just a spice, not the main course.
Tell your partner what you want them to do or rather, who you want them to be. In return, ask them what they want. After that, all you need to do is set it up. You can dress up, change names, or even go as far as meeting at a bar, pretending you don’t know each other and just met. Use both of your imagination. If you think about it, the sky’s the limit. Don’t hold back because, in the end, it’s your relationship and no one else’s. Guaranteed, this will get things back on track in the bedroom.
Having sex with the same set of positions over and over again just won’t do. Yeah, at first it would be okay but if you’ve already gone a long way through your relationship and you’re still using the same positions, then expect your partner to get bored. Consider trying some new positions with your partner and let yourselves out of your comfort zones.
Try Watching Porn Together
Some people prefer to have their partner focused on them and only them. However, that may not be the case for you and/ or your partner. Watching porn can arouse and help some people get off, and you might be one of those people without knowing it since you haven’t tried it before. On top of that, both of you can pick up a couple of moves and tricks from it that you can use later on in the future.
Set Up A Mirror
While some of us would like to have the lights dimmed and even off, others would prefer seeing everything. By that, I mean literally everything. Some people find it erotic to see themselves and their partner going at it. Consider setting up a mirror inside your bedroom. You can have it hanged or propped up on the wall. Even better, have it installed on your ceiling.
Some people tend to go straight at it, but that could be quite boring. Don’t go straight to having sex. Instead, incorporate some foreplay action to it. Tease your partner until they become frustrated, leaving them wanting more.
Speaking of teasing, most of us would expect to be touched while having sex. A great idea to have your partner all worked up is to tease them by not using your hands at all for the entirety of the session. Instead, explore one another’s bodies with your lips, skin, and breath.
Keep Your Clothes On
Try removing only the key pieces of clothing. Unzip their fly instead of removing their whole pants, or maybe push your underwear to the side instead of removing it. It may seem silly or even inconvenient to some just thinking about it, but that kind of urgency that screams ‘i need you now’ can definitely make your session seriously hot.
Getting to know your partner’s likes and dislikes in bed can be quite an easy feat for some. However, this can be quite a challenge for the others. If you ever feel like your relationship is going a bit stale, these are ten of the things you and your partner should definitely try to turn your love life up a notch.
However, before doing any of these, talk it up with your partner first. They might not be willing to dive into what you’re into and just end up getting weirded out by your ideas and requests. You don’t want your partner to further lose interest in you, do you? Bring it up and compromise with each other’s wants and preferences. As they say, communication is certainly the key to understanding one another, especially if you want to keep the flame burning with your sexual attraction with one another.